Bad skin dating
But all he was doing was responding to a universal thing that bothers guys: the possibility that the girl they are into might take interest in another guy.We don't mind when you demand our time, when you are overly emotional, or when you get too drunk.Another friend of mine once told me he goes for girls that he thinks no one else will be attracted to just to avoid the hassle — which explainswhy he became obsessed over a girl who looked like Ichabod Crane.He even called her "Ichabod."The hypocritical nature of guys is well known.I took care of it.""What do you mean you took care of it," I asked, alarmed."I took care of it."And he walked away.Later on that night, my girlfriend was spitting out a litany of things I did wrong and capped it off with: "And please don't send your friends in to talk trash when I'm just sitting there talking to my old friend from my hometown! I probably should have kept better watch on my buddy.The reason this bothers guys so much must have to do with our competitive nature.You've seen us running around like idiots on the sports field, swigging brews in the bar watching our favorite football teams, or even getting into stupid fights at social events.
I've tried my hardest to swallow my pride and not care when a girl I like says, "So and so is hot." I feel like I look more secure with myself when I can just make a clever comment back or shake it off.One time I was seeing this girl, and her friend from out of town visited. While we were out, she spent a lot of time huddled at a table talking to him. Eventually, my feisty New Jersey buddy from college came up to me and said: "Hey, don't worry about your girlfriend and that guy.But we do mind when we are forced to reveal that we are jealous of another guy in your life, or when you seem to be hitting it off with another guy.A friend of mine recently told me that his birthday was ruined when his girlfriend spent a lot of time conversing with a guy in the bar. The alcohol probably didn't help his perception, but he would definitely agree that other guys bother us. I've talked to a bunch of my friends and done some reflection and I've decided that the best way to bother us or get our attention is to flirt with a guy.
You can make it worse by making us think that there's a chance you will hook up with this guy.