Dating advice for single guys
Even if that person is a jerk, they don’t deserve it.You can rationalize away why you should cheat, you’re not getting enough attention, they don’t listen to you, etc.You need to step away from your current relationship and be single for a bit before jumping into something new. That they jump to relationship to relationship awfully quickly, even when they’re not over their ex. Because if you cheat on someone with someone else, that other person will always wonder if you’re going to do them wrong the same way…I went on a first date once where the guy couldn’t stop talking about his bad ex-girlfriend. And you kind of just broke your trust with that new relationship too.
You also need to be prepared to walk away from that relationship if you are looking to cheat.
I’ve seen couples living with each other and the guy could not stop being jealous and accusing his girlfriend of trying to date other guys and attracting attention. She broke up with him because he could never trust her. Yes, you are settling because you think you don’t deserve better.
After a few months if you can’t trust that person and you think that every good looking person that walks in the door is grabbing the attention of your honey bunny, you got a big problem.
Then a few days after the date he texted me that he still wasn’t over his ex. You’ve shown that person that you can sneak around to find what you want. You start to doubt yourself in relationships and wonder if anyone really likes you for you, or is just looking around the corner for something new.
If you’re in a relationship right now where you can’t trust the person, ask yourself these few questions: If you’ve just started to date this person for a month and they’ve shown you no reason to be jealous, then try your darnest not to be the green-eyed monster, because the minute you start trying to control someone else, you’re breaking that relationship and the only thing you need to control is yourself. You cannot control another human being, you can only control your own emotions. Has it been 6 months and you still can’t trust your S. If it’s been several months/years and you still can’t trust the person you’ve been dating, you’re settling for low standards.
The answer is you’re being WAY too jealous, or that person is really looking for other people.